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    Imagine, if you will, the world from the gaslighter’s perspective. The gaslighter meets you. You are the answer to all his problems. He becomes smitten with you as you are occupying him and staving off all his boredom. But your "shiny" eventually wears off, as it does with all relationships.Then, the gaslighter is bored with you and the everyday activities of the normal relationship. He blames you for him being born. He develops contempt and resentment toward you everyday that he has to look at your face again. He starts to think that you are tying him down. He starts to think that you are the one who is stopping him from having all the fun he could be having.You want to tie the gaslighter down with all your moral constraints, social etiquette, social rules, and relationship expectations. The bored gaslighter wants to do whatever he wants and when he wants to do it. He doesn’t want anyone else telling him what he can or cannot do. He detests authority figures, and you are behaving as though you are an authority. You are the one stopping him from doing all the reckless and fun activities that he wants to spend his time doing.  He treats you now like you are the "fun killer". You sought thrills and fun in him, but then, your expectations changed, and you wanted something real. The gaslighter doesn’t want something real. Granted, he doesn’t want anyone else to have what is his, but he doesn’t want something real. He doesn’t intellectually get being monogamous and married to the same person for life. Marriage is, inevitably, boring. And so is staying with the same person every day. So, the gaslighter starts to look at you like you are an old couch. He stirs up the pot. He gets restless and takes off on you, dumping all the responsibilities of the relationship.Buy the audiobook now to know more! ungekürzt. Language: English. Narrator: Virginia Schaffer. Audio sample: https://samples.audible.de/bk/acx0/180735/bk_acx0_180735_sample.mp3. Digital audiobook in aax.
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    Discover how to steer clear of gaslighters and recover from toxic relationships.From friends, parents, siblings, to spouses, gaslighters are everywhere. Gaslighting is an insidious form of emotional and psychological manipulation that is completely damaging when left unresolved. But what does a gaslighter do that is so harmful?A gaslighter will - slowly, but effectively - make you question your sanity by eroding your self-belief, confidence, decisions, and reality.A gaslighter ensures that their victim is unsure of what they are doing or saying. They keep their victims completely off balance and worried all the time.Do you want to recognize the techniques used in gaslighting? Are you looking to recover from a relationship with a gaslighter? If so, this audiobook is exactly for you.This audiobook will give you insights on how you can identify a gaslighter so that you can avoid such people in your life. It will show you, in a step-by-step manner, how to identify gaslighting techniques and how to tell who's a gaslighter.It is time to take charge of your life and stop being controlled by others.This audiobook will help you:Learn the clear signs that someone is a gaslighterLearn how to be strong and cope with gaslighting effectsGet an effective therapy for gaslighting victimsFix your life and become happy again by regaining your self-confidenceAnd much, much more!FAQsQ: Have I been gaslighted?A: Many people do not recognize when they are being gaslighted. Some obvious signs that you are being gaslighted include regularly feeling unhappy and unloved, second-guessing yourself (even in small decisions) and frequently making excuses for others. Get more warning signs of been gaslighted in the book. ungekürzt. Language: English. Narrator: Millie Green. Audio sample: https://samples.audible.de/bk/acx0/176123/bk_acx0_176123_sample.mp3. Digital audiobook in aax.
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    Most people don’t realize it, but you can suffer Complex PTSD from gaslighting. The gaslighter’s victim usually suffers from an extreme case of dissonance. She becomes disoriented, struggling to choose between the reality she knows to be true and the reality he is trying to sell her on.Gaslighting victims find that they usually become anxious first. They wake up with a ball in the pit of their stomach. They are always waiting for the other shoe to drop where the gaslighter is concerned. They always have to cope with his malevolent and vicious behavior. They are forced to deal with his negative and disagreeable temperament. They are on edge wondering which thing he said is a lie and which thing he said is the truth.A person suffers from anxiousness for a while. He or she is never sure whether the gaslighter is going to stay in the relationship or whether they are going to leave. The relationship with an extreme personality individual is very volatile. The person is always bored and looking for more stimulation outside the relationship. The person cannot just be happy where they are at.The gaslighter never allows anything to be stable for very long. Stability feels uncomfortable for the gaslighter. He is letting his life go by without him. He is watching all the thrillers on television, and he wants to be in on the action like those guys. He thinks his life should look like a fantasy.Meanwhile, the gaslighter gives the other person in the relationship a serious case of Complex PTSD. He traumatizes her to the point that she might never...Get the audiobook now to hear more. ungekürzt. Language: English. Narrator: brian ackley. Audio sample: https://samples.audible.de/bk/acx0/180739/bk_acx0_180739_sample.mp3. Digital audiobook in aax.
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    The gaslighter in your life has many reasons why he is malevolent instead of benevolent. He won’t show these causes or clue you in on them, of course, because he doesn’t have much insight into his own condition. But we will share some of them with you so that you can better understand the underlying conditions you are dealing with that leads a person to gaslight you.Some people call the gaslighter "evil", "demon", or even "devil incarnate". You might associate your gaslighter with the devil. There is no doubt that the gaslighter is an incredible master manipulator. He toys with you. He plays mind games. He does it with ease, and he acts as though he’s done nothing at all wrong.It will surprise you to know that not everyone gaslights intentionally. There are many people conditioned to be gaslighters since they were children. Left with no normal mentors, they learned to gaslight because that’s the way their family was. If you didn’t gaslight back and forth with others, you were literally excluded from fitting in with your family origin. I’ve seen families of people who outcast those who didn’t learn how to put down and criticize the other family members around them.Buy the audiobook to find out more! ungekürzt. Language: English. Narrator: Mike Davis. Audio sample: https://samples.audible.de/bk/acx0/180734/bk_acx0_180734_sample.mp3. Digital audiobook in aax.
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    This audiobook discusses the different mind control tactics that are used by gaslighters to assassinate your character. He wants to put you down in any way that he can. It is only in devaluing you that he can realize his true potential as a person who seeks to control, dominate, and bully you. If you let him get the upper hand, he will turn your life upside down until you wish you had never met him.The first step in dealing with a gaslighter is learning to identify what he is doing to you. The second step is to turn the tables so you can get the upper hand. You meet the gaslighter. He projects this awesome false image to you. You think that he is genuine. You think that he is "the one". He is the answer to all your prayers and your questions in this world. What will you do with the rest of your life? Lo and behold, the universe has dropped this magnificent creature at your feet! You’re in love.The gaslighter proceeds to get to know you inside and out. He gets to know you like he gets to know a machine he is working on at his job. He gets to know you like he learns the habits of the deer he is baiting and hunting in the forest. Once the gaslighter gets to know you, he will seek to assassinate your character. He will often do so without you being aware that he is doing it. You won't realize it, but the gaslighter immediately begins talking about you behind your back from the moment he meets you. He may have talked about you behind your back long before he met you. He may have talked about you behind your back with his posse the moment you took that job or moved into that apartment or started your gym membership. He noticed that other people were interested in who you are and that was all that it took for him to feign interest in you to compete with them!The gaslighter does whatever it takes to jump forward into your sphere of existence. He jumps through hoops to get you to react.Buy the audiobook now to find out more./p ungekürzt. Language: English. Narrator: Pete Beretta. Audio sample: https://samples.audible.de/bk/acx0/184244/bk_acx0_184244_sample.mp3. Digital audiobook in aax.
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    If you feel you’ve always struggled with gaslighters and narcissists, but keep falling for their manipulative tactics, then pay attention.Are you sick and tired of a gaslighter making your life miserable?Have you tried countless solutions, but everything blows up in your face?Do you want to finally end your frustration and pain, and discover a life free of lies and uncertainty?If your answer is yes, then you've come to the right place!You see, living a life free from the gaslighter's manipulation doesn't need to remain a dream that won't come true - even if you've tried all sorts of tactics to get them to act like they have a heart!It's a lot easier than you think. A study published in Psychology and Aging shows that narcissistic gaslighters can and do change over time, which means things are not hopeless for you.Another study in the Personality and Social Psychology bulletin also shows that with the right conditions, the gaslighter can be moved to do the right thing. This means that, under the right conditions, you can get the gaslighter to stop working you like a puppet.Here's just a bit of what you'll learn:The secret ways with which gaslighters make you go crazyThe powerful effects gaslighting can have on your psycheWays to tell when you're being gaslightedEssential steps to take when dealing with gaslighters at work or homeWhat abusive behavior looks like and how to deal with it effectivelyWays to help the narcissist change their waysTake a second to imagine how you'll feel once you can no longer be manipulated by the gaslighter or anyone else and how your family and friends will react when they see you've taken back your power.And if you have a burning desire to get your sense of identity back, taking back your life from the gaslighter, then scroll up and click "buy now". ungekürzt. Language: English. Narrator: Stephen Low. Audio sample: https://samples.audible.de/bk/acx0/205715/bk_acx0_205715_sample.mp3. Digital audiobook in aax.
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    Diagnoses in psychology often don’t take into consideration the underlying structural abnormalities of the person’s brain. For example, we label people with ADHD, Schizophrenia, psychopathy, Korsakoff’s, Autism Spectrum Disorder, Dyslexia, and Asperger’s Syndrome. Did you know that these psychological diagnoses often have something in common? The people diagnosed with these disorders often have structural differences in the Corpus Callosum (the white matter) in the brain. The white matter is the brain’s "superhighway". The brain sends signals back and forth. If the brain gets really good at sending the same kind of signal (myelination), then the signal travels 100 times faster than it would normally travel.The gaslighter you know may be really brilliant and skilled in a certain area. This area is one that he or she has practiced over and over ad nauseum. As a child, if the gaslighter saw lying as a good coping mechanism to his or her inability to learn on his or her feet under stress, the gaslighter would practice the lying over and over. The brain’s ability to get good at the things we practice repeatedly will reinforce the gaslighter’s skills in....Download now to hear more. ungekürzt. Language: English. Narrator: Sean Leyden. Audio sample: https://samples.audible.de/bk/acx0/180728/bk_acx0_180728_sample.mp3. Digital audiobook in aax.
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    Gaslighting is an insidious form of brainwashing and mind control forced onto you by another human being. This person is willing to stoop to any levels to dominate and control you. He or she is not working together with you. The person is competing against you. The gaslighting individual values objects and status and popularity - his or her own objects, status, and popularity. The gaslighter almost never has your best interests at heart. His intentions and goals aligning with yours, usually, is a pure coincidence rather than something he or she aligned intentionally.Picture the great leader who starts a war. He views his people as resources that are at his disposal to acquire other resources for him. He launches propaganda and puffs up his chest to other leaders and countries to show them that he is the top dog. He pretends to be more than he is, and he pretends his army is more than what they are.We will talk to the gaslighter in this book. We will climb inside his head to show you what he is thinking. We will show you the tactics the gaslighter may use. We will show you how callous his emotions can be. These tactics will help expose the gaslighter.Interested? Buy the audiobook to know more. ungekürzt. Language: English. Narrator: Bruce Stone. Audio sample: https://samples.audible.de/bk/acx0/175213/bk_acx0_175213_sample.mp3. Digital audiobook in aax.
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    Most people who are fooled by the gaslighter eventually start to question who he really is. He develops his fancy exterior, but the gaslighter rarely or never develops his interior. He works on his "look", but he doesn’t work on his personality. He is rough around the edges, at best. He only tries to fit in so far as it takes for him to gain trust with other people.The gaslighter wears the right clothes. He dresses impeccably. He pays special attention to his looks. He showers daily. He doesn’t leave the house without refining his look. He doesn’t need to be clean-shaven. He just needs to fit in with those around him.Don’t try to look too close at his false image. Underneath that false exterior, there isn’t really much to the gaslighter. The gaslighter’s wife often knows him for 40 years without really knowing him. If he does let her into his fragile interior, he is afraid that she will poke fun at who he really is. He is afraid she will laugh that he is merely a child beneath adult-sized clothing.The gaslighting man-child relates better to children because he never learned to relate to adults. He couldn’t carry on responsibilities of an adult alone if his life depended on it. His future terrifies him because he cannot fend for himself and must rely on other people all the time just for his own survival. He still watches Tom and Jerry on Saturday morning with his bowl of fruit loops. He does whatever he can to dodge his honey do list because he is too embarrassed or too lazy to tell anyone else that he doesn’t know how to do the stuff on the list.  Buy the audiobook to learn more. ungekürzt. Language: English. Narrator: Patrick Shumba Mutukwa. Audio sample: https://samples.audible.de/bk/acx0/193432/bk_acx0_193432_sample.mp3. Digital audiobook in aax.
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    You are a step away from learning about Gaslighting, including knowing if you are in a relationship with a gaslighter, and how to regain control and your sanity!“Oh come on. Stop being too sensitive.”“It was just a joke. Can’t you take a joke?”“Why are you making a big deal out of something so small?”“What is wrong with you? Can’t you do anything right?”Do you have someone in your life who keeps belittling your concerns and making you feel like your concerns about something are invalid?Does it always feel like you are always misunderstanding him/her because any time you point out something they said, they always turn things around to make you look like you have no idea of what you are saying?Does that person one time call you stupid and the next time they are congratulating you about something?If this is where you find yourself, then you are definitely dealing with a gaslighter. A gaslighter usually wants to manipulate you by doing or saying things that will question your reality, perceptions, and memory. They will make it seem like you are always misunderstanding them or misquoting them, you are always making a mountain out of a molehill, that your concerns are not valid. You may then end up not being free to express yourself, which can negatively affect your self-esteem, and make you doubt everything about yourself.By virtue that you are reading this, it is clear that you want to put an end to gas lighting, for good and are looking for answers to many of the questions running through your mind...How do you tell for sure that someone is a gas lighter? How do you see them for what they are, call them out and start taking steps to turn things around? How do you make the gas lighter to see what he/she does is wrong? Why does the gas lighter do what he/she does? How can you stop getting affected by the gas lighting strategies that the gas lighter in your life has been using on you? How do you take ungekürzt. Language: English. Narrator: Chris Johnson. Audio sample: https://samples.audible.de/bk/acx0/198389/bk_acx0_198389_sample.mp3. Digital audiobook in aax.
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